The perfect mothers:
They always know what to do.
They have all the answers.
Leen, are informed and trained.
They are always alert to the needs of their children.
They always attend to their children quickly.
They know how to organize their time.
They always arrive on time.
They are responsible for ensuring that their children always eat healthy..
They are always available.
They know where everything is in the house.
They find everything that is lost or does not appear.
They always know what to do when their children get sick.
They always feel happy.
They don't need anything for themselves.
They can do everything and if something else comes up, they can also.
They never shout or get angry.
They always give unconditional love.
They worry about keeping their physique in check.
They smile.
They “fix”, they know how to make themselves pretty.
They are organized and orderly.
They feel very guilty when they cannot do any of these things..
They forget to have fun.
They laugh less and less.
They feel responsible for everything that happens to their children..
They stop paying attention.
They get bored.
They start to not like each other.
They have less and less patience.
They find it difficult to empathize with their children.
They are becoming more and more resentful.
They get angrier.
They forget the things that make them feel good.
What if we gave ourselves a little of what we give to our children??
Attention, Careful, indulgence, unconditional love, time, I respect.
Take care of the words you say to yourself, watch the messages that appear in your head, talk to yourself with love.
You are growing too, like them, through this experience.
Allow yourself to move forward, make a mistake, reflect, rewind, start over.
It's never too late to stop trying to be perfect and start enjoying your life..