Much of suffering in relationships with others has to do with the own needs we feel at stake. Many times we talk, We climb the tone, We get angry without having wanted to get there, In an attempt to be understood in something that perhaps we have not yet been able to identify.
Behind a daily discussion of task distribution, I can be feeling my need for recognition, of belonging…And that apparently could be solved without much effort becomes something that produces great internal discomfort and what we do not get to distance ourselves.